i am boring what can i do?

1) The willingness to enjoy life.

If you think you are boring, let me first illustrate what is not wrong with you.
Your appearance, your expressions, clothes, face, shoes, gestures, your height and weight, everything is fine.
The problem is in your mind. Most people who are actually boring are far removed from a happy state of mind.
They are suffering from self projected impressions -- such as, I am not worthy of being liked, I can never be popular,I can't talk like that guy from that movie, I am not charismatic, I am boring.
These negative affirmations are the reason why you are boring and awkward in real life.
To change this, you don't have to replace them with positive affirmations, all you need to do is stop assuming.
There should be no thought. Blankness. Second thing you need is, feel the willingness to have a good time.
When you have expectations, you invite either those expectations to be met, or disappointment.
It is the expectation to be bedazzling, to be awesome that is creating the conclusion you're boring.

2) self image.

Let's go a little deeper, how do you view yourself? If all you do is being harsh on yourself, overly critical, criticize every movement and word,analyse what you should have said, how you should look, then you will never be happy with yourself.First, accept yourself completely.
You're a glorious creation, and the flaws that you find in yourself are subjective results of comparisons you draw with others.
These are self created flaws.
I am not pretty, I am overweight, I can't talk fast, people will judge me for this or that, blahblah.
How can you expect others to love you when you don't love yourself!
I am a fine person, I am actually enough,and sure, I see ways to self improvement, but I want to improve because I want to be better, not because I want to be like someone else.
You're not them. If you are impressed by somebody, and want to be like them, you'll end up ruining your own individuality.
You are a hero of your own story, someday people are going to look up to you and say, I want to like you.
And that will only happen because you did it your own way, so create your own path by embracing your own personality.
But that starts with accepting yourself - the things dislike about yourself. It's you, love yourself completely.

3) People.

The enemy of the mind. You get impressed by people in your mind you create impressions of them,which are baseless because you have zero information about their real life.
One thing that the human race has mastered is, how to strike an impression,because your survival and your chances of getting laid depend on it.
If in my first impression, I can be charming and impress you, I would be liked, and that can get me dates.
So every human being will appear to be benign, nice, caring, charming, impressive because it is evolutionarily required to survive in social environment.
That is why, I don't give a flying fuck about first impressions because l know they are bullshit. It is rehearsed by them.
I base my impression on data, so I talk.
After having talked, I realize they are just as confused, miserable, desperate, scared and a mess as you are.
And it's not a bad thing. It simply stops making them impressive, it makes them human.
Therefore, stop attaching impressiveness, learn see people as just people.

4) Assume firsthand everytime you are in a social situation that people are just as awkward as you.
The same things are going in their minds as well.
They too are making assumptions, drowning themselves in comparisons, are blinded by first impressions,and are posturing as a defense mechanism.
When you understand what's going on in their minds, you realize somebody has to break the tension, because it's all in the mind.
In reality, you're surrounded by more different versions of you.

5) Never focus on building relationships, but having a good time.
Building relationships require to be liked by others.
When you want to be liked by others, you invite efforts and desperation.
Those efforts are also fake, because you are doing things that would please them, impress them because you want to be liked, so you're busy fulfilling their expectations, thereby losing yourself.
When you want to have a good time, you are yourself, in a positive mood, in no mood to satisfy somebody's demands or to listen to somebody's shit.
And when you actually have a good time with others, relationships get built as a by product, because people are attracted to positivity and real people.

I hope this blog helps you, if you have any problems, you can message me on instagram at Instagram.com/syashmishra
And lastly, never forget, you are awesome.