Best Reason To Marry Someone !
Why should people marry?
The answer is, there is no reason to marry someone other than friendship.
Think about it, you're going to spend your entire life with that person, which means after a certain time you'll have to tolerate that person, and who is the single person you've happy tolerated you entire life? it's your friend.
German philospher, Friedrich Nietzsche said about marriage.
A very basic question.
Forget sex, forget her body, forget everything.
Just focus on her personality, and ask yourself honestly, do you like her personality?
What do you like her personality?
What do you dislike in her personality?
Are the dislike more than the like?
Forget her FACE, forget how BEAUTIFUL She is.
Do you enjoy TALKING with this person? or Do you prefer your friends when you just want to talk?
Why am I asking these questions?
Because if your love or fascination is strictly restricted to her beauty, you have to understand that her beauty will decline as you age.
At 35, she will half as pretty as she used to be at 25.
So the hotness, for most of its part, will be gone, and you will still be married to her personality.
And the girls who get fascinated by money, maybe the transition from middle class to a rich lifestyle might feel exciting to you at first, but for how long do you think you can prolong that excitement?
There will come a time when that transition will become permanent and then you'd be used to being a rich person.
And being rich will become just as boring as it is being in any other financial state if you are with a person you don't love.
People get blinded by hotness, by money, not that money is not important, but it shouldn't be the only important thing in the world.
And if you're so concerned about hotness, anybody can be hot, hotness has nothing to do your physique.
If you are thin or overweight, exercise, get in the best shap of your life, you will become hot.
Looks don't matter because when it comes to sex, our brains still function on a primate level.
Women unconsciously respond greatly to guys who are muscular and in great shape.
And so does men, we unconsciously focus and respond to the size of breasts or the posterior of the girls.
Why do you think in porn, men are always muscular and almost all women have those important?
Because they know that people respond to physique more than just looks.
So guys, to sum this up, I only have one thing I would want you to consider: She might have the greatest pair of........ books (maybe you guys understood) in her shelves, but don't be impressed and blinded by those books.
The cover might look very interesting to you, but a day will come when you'd be bored of reading the same content again and again.
And then you'd be attracted to other books, and you might one day secretly read another book very badly.
And if you do that, the whole point of committing to those first books was pointless, and you have wasted years of your life.
Now, none of what I have said is absolute.
I would love to learn from you as well.
Do share & comments.
Thank you for reading.
- Syash Mishra.
The answer is, there is no reason to marry someone other than friendship.
Think about it, you're going to spend your entire life with that person, which means after a certain time you'll have to tolerate that person, and who is the single person you've happy tolerated you entire life? it's your friend.
German philospher, Friedrich Nietzsche said about marriage.
A very basic question.
Forget sex, forget her body, forget everything.
Just focus on her personality, and ask yourself honestly, do you like her personality?
What do you like her personality?
What do you dislike in her personality?
Are the dislike more than the like?
Forget her FACE, forget how BEAUTIFUL She is.
Do you enjoy TALKING with this person? or Do you prefer your friends when you just want to talk?
Why am I asking these questions?
Because if your love or fascination is strictly restricted to her beauty, you have to understand that her beauty will decline as you age.
At 35, she will half as pretty as she used to be at 25.
So the hotness, for most of its part, will be gone, and you will still be married to her personality.
And the girls who get fascinated by money, maybe the transition from middle class to a rich lifestyle might feel exciting to you at first, but for how long do you think you can prolong that excitement?
There will come a time when that transition will become permanent and then you'd be used to being a rich person.
And being rich will become just as boring as it is being in any other financial state if you are with a person you don't love.
People get blinded by hotness, by money, not that money is not important, but it shouldn't be the only important thing in the world.
And if you're so concerned about hotness, anybody can be hot, hotness has nothing to do your physique.
If you are thin or overweight, exercise, get in the best shap of your life, you will become hot.
Looks don't matter because when it comes to sex, our brains still function on a primate level.
Women unconsciously respond greatly to guys who are muscular and in great shape.
And so does men, we unconsciously focus and respond to the size of breasts or the posterior of the girls.
Why do you think in porn, men are always muscular and almost all women have those important?
Because they know that people respond to physique more than just looks.
So guys, to sum this up, I only have one thing I would want you to consider: She might have the greatest pair of........ books (maybe you guys understood) in her shelves, but don't be impressed and blinded by those books.
The cover might look very interesting to you, but a day will come when you'd be bored of reading the same content again and again.
And then you'd be attracted to other books, and you might one day secretly read another book very badly.
And if you do that, the whole point of committing to those first books was pointless, and you have wasted years of your life.
Now, none of what I have said is absolute.
I would love to learn from you as well.
Do share & comments.
Thank you for reading.
- Syash Mishra.
