Don't! Chase Girls, Chase Success..!!

You always know the things that are keeping you always from excelling at work. Even if you say I don't at the back of your head, you do.

They're called distraction, and you love to have then in your life.

If you have dedicated yourself to changing your life, you will have to simultaneously take care of these distraction.

Most of the time we are not successful, not because we weren't prepared, but our prioritise were at the wrong place.

If you want to succeed and make limitless progress, sacrifice is inevitable.

You will have to make sacrifices.

And in a way, sacrifices also add a distinct flavor to your victory.

Let's directly goto the things on which we waste most of the time: Texting with girls.


I want to ask you an honest question, how many girls in total do you text with? And each day, how many hours on an average do you spend in Texting-Reading texts, sending text, or just staring at them?

How many hours?

I hope you have a number.

Now tell me, how many girls in your life have come and gone with whom you used to text similarly, with the same pace once upon a time?

I'm sure there is a number there.

Now, what's the fucking difference between the girls you are texting now and the once you don't anymore?

How are the different?

You're simply wasting time.

How hopeful are we or should I say, how stupid lesson - people have a lot of time in their hands, doesn't mean she is going to become your girlfriend!

Let me tell you another secret you already know: you're not the only guy she is texting with.

But it doesn't matter to you, because when it comes to girls, you have lost all your self-esteem.

You are ready to do anything for her, you won't give the same thought for your parents, especially not for yourself, and screw your friends, you will dump them any day dor her.

Now let me tell you why that chick you spend all day texting with in an idiot.


The smart ones, the really smart ones whom you wouldn't get to meet because you are royally fucking up your life, don't waste their time texting with random people.

I have eight female best friends.

None of them, not one does this shit.

Why?

Because they're enjoy with a close bunch of friends, and they don't really care for guys.

They're gems.

But you won't get get to meet such girls, because right now, you're in shit, so you're meeting shit, and instead of rising above it, you're planning, constantly trying, and literally ready to die for an idiot.

And then you wants, she says one thing and never go out with this guy, but now she is!

You know why, because she doesn't know shit about her life, and she doesn't care to find out either, so she is just living in the moment.

And that is a very dangerous person to away your years, opportunities, focus, and happiness, not deliberately, she's not an evil villainous criminal mastermind, she will do it because she herself doesn't know what choice to make.

So she will make a self serving choice, self serving choice means something that fascinates her the most in the moment, and in that moment, it could be looks, money, cars, hanging out, clubs, partying, drugs, lifestyle, bad boys, anything.

So, for the last time, stop wasting your time on people who haven't a clue what they are doing, unless you wanna be labelled an idiot as well, which I am sure, you don't.

If you care about yourself, value yourself, have a goals in your life, and respect yourself, you will find a girl who will love you for who you are, and earns a lot of money herself.

But to get to that level, and meet such people who have also above shit, elevated themselves to such levels, you will have to detach yourself completely from the life you're dissatisfied with right now.

Stop making compromises, make sacrifices.

In case you are already in a relationship, but aren't happy, you state for mind is affected by it, you are unable to focus, and dealing with her takes up all your time, then you have two options: your life, or an amount of time of suffering before she dumps your ass.

If your relationship isn't going well, believe me, trust me, it will end, because she isn't enjoying either.

But you are bent upon following that compromising mindset, and dragging yourself with the relationship.

Now I can go at great lengths explaing how and what and why.

But this article isn't about relationship advice, it's on how to get filthy rich.

If you want to get rich, immediately get out of the relationship the moment you find out it's affecting your resolve to give your 100%.

Had once happened to me.

I had a brilliant opportunity to get to Bangalore but my girlfriend asked me not to, for her, I agreed. I wanted that opportunity of self growth, week later, my girlfriend was asked to go to Chandigarh by her firm, she didn't miss.

She took it, dumped my ass and left. I wonder, what is that moment convinced me to stay?

I'm sure she may have even loved me very much, but now, looking back, to me it's nothing but a regret.

Ask any person with such an experience, not any form of joy, sex nothing makes up for the waste of time and opportunities lost.

I don't want you to look back and start sentences with, I wish.

There are many of us doing it already.

Learn from them.

And for those who think there are some big life changing lesson to be learned from a breackup.

Let me tell you: there are no lesson when girl dumps your ass, expect, that humans aren't trustworthy, which you already knew.

You don't trust guys, when leave you house, do you just leave it open?

You lock every door, you make sure everything is safe and secure, why?

Because you don't trust people.

Girls are people, and like all people, a lot of are going to be extremely selfish.

Stop thinking in your head that girls are some heavenly creatures that are going to make your life more beautiful, and fix all your problems..!!

You know where we get this idea from?

Movies..!!

In movies, the actress is the most caring, nice girl in the world, she never cheats, never causes any trouble for the hero, support him though anything, and stands by his side through a shit storm of troubles.

This bullshit fantasy serves the men the greatest motivation to get a girlfriend.

We think, that's what a relationship is like.

And the really kicks you superhard in the nuts.

Don't get into shit deliberately by choice.

Life will give you enough problems.

Just wait and while.

Half of the completions in life are self created.

We are getting into complex relationships with girls, forcing ourselves into love..!!

As a result we waste the time most important, life, life building years we have.

Am I asking you to stay single?

No sex?

No girls, nothing?

No..!!

Get into relationships, but stay only if they are complimenting your growth.

If she is adding something to your life, becoming a catalyet rather than a thorn, then stay gladly.

And she would be happy to be with you too, because you are doing the same for her.

But if you get into a relationship, because she is hot, because you finally have a girlfriend, you created another and are wasting for another reget to happen.

Because you are not in relationship with person, you are in it for sex.

And the worst part of sex is, it doesn't give you anything back, you will have spent more time in that relationship than you can imagine, and lastly, it will destroy your state of mind.

Sex the greatest feeling!

It isn't it really isn't, we are all caught up in this hype, so we convince ourselves it is.

Coming back, if you are focused, and let's say the person you are with, is frequently asking you to go to the mall, to the club, to her friends, to parties, during the time you had specifically set for work, for self growth, get the fuck out of the relationship.

On top of that, distance yourself from friends that are constantly smoking drugs around you, drinking, and want you to be a part of it.

We all have them.

If you're around them, sooner or later, you will include, you will sit with them and start enjoying their bullshit.

These are escapists.

They have no dreams in their life, so to escape from their own selves, they take drugs.

Connect with people who share your focus, and people who can teach you something.

I'm not asking you to cut off your friends, I'm asking you to distance yourself from these who are hell - bent on shutting on their lives.

Lastly, adding to this point, stop extending your glorious wisdom to girls.

And by that I mean, stop talking responsibility of girls who constantly get into shit, have a tendency of getting into dysfunctional relationships, and then call you for hours as if you are going to make their problems go away.

Take your own responsibility, when you are done conquering the world then help others.

By this, I don't mean, don't feel the hungry, don't help the under - privileged.

This is for all those hopeless romantic who for some reason believe that by helping the girl they will get the girl.

You are not her fother.

You are not anything to her.

She has the capacity the choice, and the will to fix her life, if she wanted to.

Some people naturally crave drama, and what does drama essentially need?

Audience.

You're nothing but an audience to her, because she is so self absorbed, she thinks nothing outside her life matters.

She plainly doesn't give a fuck if you fail or succeed, if you live or die, stop!

If you want to rise above mediocrity, if you want to achieve greatness, if not, keep doing it, millions of guys are already with you.

The question falls on your head, you an individual, whose life is in your hand, what are you going to do about it?

Note:- girls replace themselves to boys.