How to look handsome and attractive! || MenSeek || Mr-Syash Mishra ||

How to look handsome and attractive! First of all, my response to you if you think you're not good looking, that's complete horseshit. I am not saying you're good looking, but you can be much better looking if you cared.

Every human being has the ability to look very good, but that needs effort and care.

Looking good does not mean you'd join the likes of top models and actors, it means that you'd be the best you can look, which you currently aren't. Do I think looking good is something you should care about?

What I want you to care about is looking presentable, because that subconsciously impacts others' opinions about you.

So that is important. Obsessively looking into a mirror and clicking pictures of yourself to get likes makes you a moron.

Just because the world does it doesn't make it any less moronic. But working toward a healthy lifestyle, eating well to keep your mind and body sharp, looking presentable may actually result in you looking very good.

But that is a by product you should cherish, not something you should aimlessly pursue for social acceptance.

Having said that, this blog is about solving some of your insecurities, in case you are conscious about the way you look.

Very quickly, I would go through how to fix facial disappointments. 

1) fix your eyebrows.

People subconsciously take eyebrows into consideration a lot. A simple adjustment in your eyebrows can drastically change visual perception.

Get yourself a tweezer or an eyebrow plucker. Place a comb vertically at one side of your nose and pluck out everything that falls in, and then place on the other side, and do the same.

 Eyebrows: check!

2) Grow a stubble. A stubble is a light beard, as opposed to dense or whatever I have.

Chances are the reason why you find yourself unattractive is, you don't have a symmetrical jawline, have chubby cheeks, whatever it may be, the solution is a beard. What I mean is generous amount of hairs that cover everything and don't demand special care.

3) If you have warts, moles, acne, scars, uneven skin darkening, or any sort of skin problem, go visit a dermatologist and learn about your skin type. This is making you insecure, conscious, affecting your confidence, and affecting your life.

This is money well spent. What else is money for, if not for you?

A dermatologist will make you understand what effect the products you are using are having on your skin, if you're making a mistake.

You're buying products because dumbass film stars are promising you shit because they took money.

You have no idea what you are actually applying on your face, and about your skin type.

No wonder you have never had a product that actually made a real visible change.

4) work out. The science of attraction is rooted in our evolutionary behaviour, and that teaches us that our brain sees a great body as a sign of great health, which is why both men and women find themselves attracted to and admiring great bodies. Second reason you need to start working out is for clothes to not only fit on you, but look great on you. That's the purpose of fashion. We wear clothes to look attractive.

When a person looks at you, their vision allows a collective view of you as a whole, not just a face. A face is one part of the whole.

So taking the worst case scenario, let's say your face is 1 out of 10, your body can balance that out and make you a 6 out of 10 as a whole.

5) Hair: the point of a haircut is structure. Think about the time you think your hair look sexiest? It's when you are out of the shower, they are wet, shiny, in place where you want them, and you love it, because you're looking good. But then what happens?

In a few hours, they are out of control. What does that say? You simply don't care. There's a reason why there are wax, clay, gel, pomade!

The truth with men is, because we don't have long hair, the tendency to care for them, have them in shape, have them always look good doesn't exist out of convenience. We consider our fingers to be the best hair styling tools.

To look good, you have to have manageable length of hair you're going to take care of.

And there are plenty of videos on youtube that can teach how to have great looking hair.

And lastly, your impression which constitutes attitude, posture, and how you present yourself. And this is the most important part.

I am sure you have seen average looking dudes with really attractive girls. Your first assumption is, he must be filthy rich.

That's your insecure brain providi you comfort.

For somebody to feel that you look good has everything to do with what they normally get impressed by, which means a lot of factors other than just looks come into play. For example, if you dress yourself well, it subconsciously communicates to others that you take yourself seriously.

Your body language or posture tells a lot about your personality and mood, whether you are lazy, timid, confident, boring, exciting, proud, happy, sad, etc.

You yourself analyse people's personalities just by looking at them all the time, that's how our brains work.

Just from their facial expressions, you're able to tell if they are bored, uninterested, distracted, focussed, serious, happy, excited.

Most importantly, how you talk and what you make people feel when you interact design your impression the most.

For example, when you smile and show interest in what others have to say, it makes people trust you and open up; if you make people laugh easily, it makes others think you're confident; if you are loud and make sense, people may even think you're a leader; so there are host of behaviors that make people think up a lot of things.

And a lot of those things very easily could be things they find very attractive, which may attract them to you.

Very simply put, humans have subconscious stores of opinions that they attach to symbols, signs, certain behaviors, and visual information.

Their subconscious store concerning what is good looking will have a lot more than just good looks that they would be attracted to.

Just like how a matured mind won't care much for looks, but for overall personalities of people.

So if you want to be good looking, satisfy what people generally are interested in looking at, and are looking for.

Continue to have a great productive day, and never forget, you are awesome.