How do I make myself feel powerful and confident | MEN'SEEK | Syash Mishra
Let's talk about this in detail: 1) Being relaxed. You are not running after any conclusion. You are here to have a good time. You are here to genuinely have a conversation. You are interested in your fellow humans. And if they are not interested, then you don't read much into that except that they need to be left to their own businesses. Your frequencies do not match at this very moment. Leave it be. Don't overthink it. Focus on being relaxed. Relaxation in social situations is achieved in 3 ways: °There is nothing to gain from this, so there are no expectations, planning, no analyzing, and a relaxed state is naturally achieved. °There is nothing to lose here, so there is no anxiety, worry, or risk. Therefore, one can be relaxed. °There is something to gain and something to lose, for ex: you want to impress some person, but you love the game much more than losses and victories. If you lose, the game still continues, if you win, the game goes on. When you are in a state o...
